Don’t Look Away

Don’t Look Away

How One Boy’s Story has the Power to Shift a System of Care for Children and Youth

Too many children and families in British Columbia are being failed by systems never designed with their realities in mind. Don’t Look Away is a call to action from the Representative for Children and Youth (RCY) for bold, coordinated, and transformative change. The report rejects surface-level fixes and urges governments, service providers, and communities to commit to deep, systemic reform so that every young person in this province can be safe, supported, and thriving.

RCY calls on BC to move beyond siloed ministries toward a truly integrated child well-being system. This means not just new policies, but new thinking that is grounded in what we know about trauma, child development, belonging, and Indigenous knowledge.

We will never know for sure if one small action could have changed the trajectory of Colby’s life. But there is no question that collective action could have. 

 – Don’t Look Away, 2024

The Sacred Story Investigation

The Sacred Story Investigation

The Sacred Story Investigation examined how the systems responsible for protecting Colby, an 11-year-old boy with a deep love for family, culture, and community, failed to keep him safe. Despite his joyful spirit and resilience, Colby did not receive the coordinated care and support he needed.

 

This investigation extended beyond the experience of one child to reveal broader systemic failures that continue to harm children and families across British Columbia. It called for urgent, meaningful change. This investigation and resulting report honours Colby’s life by making visible the gaps in the system and calling for a collective commitment to do better for all children.

In 2024/2025 RCY staff reviewed 

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injuries and deaths of children in government care or receiving reviewable services.

– RCY Annual Report 2024/25

Colby is not an outlier
Swipe to read other stories of children who have experienced similar history.
Madelyn
Madelyn, a joyful seven-year-old with Métis heritage, is the youngest of a large sibling group. She has a vivid imagination and enjoys creating stories and characters. Curious and an advanced reader, she loves learning about animals and sharing her Métis culture with classmates. Madelyn taught her class how to tie a voyageur sash, dance a jig, and make bannock. Despite her bright spirit, she endured physical violence and neglect by a caregiver, leading to life-changing injuries.
Tyson, Aliah, and Jessica
Tyson, the middle sibling of Aliah and Jessica, was a loving child who excelled in school and dreamed of becoming a fireman. Aliah is active in sports and music, enjoying outdoor activities, while Jessica is a social butterfly, learning an instrument and horseback riding. Tragically, Tyson was tortured and killed by his mother and stepfather shortly after being reunited with family.
Dereck
Dereck, a cheerful five-month-old baby, was the first-born child of his mother. After learning of her pregnancy, she returned to her small B.C. hometown, where Dereck’s extended family stepped in for safety planning and provided full-time care. Dereck was a smiley, brown-haired boy who had already formed strong bonds with his cousins. Tragically, before his sleep-related death, he endured abuse and was placed in unsafe situations by a caregiver.
Dahlia
Dahlia is an animal lover. She is very artistic and loves poetry, art and photography. Although she has been told that she is talented and compassionate, she sometimes has a hard time believing it. People close to her say that she is skilled at making them feel welcomed and accepted through her own unique mix of humour and empathy. Dahlia has no biological siblings, although she has a sibling-like relationship with her cousins and she cares for them a great deal. Dahlia sustained physical and emotional harm by her kinship care providers that continues to impact her.
Freddy and Tanya
Freddy and Tanya, siblings with deep Indigenous roots, live in a river valley tied to their maternal ancestors who hunted and fished on the land. Freddy, 14, is kind and gentle, passionate about the outdoors, sports, reading, and arts. He dreams of becoming a conservation officer or game warden. Tanya, 9, is a strong writer with a vivid imagination, excelling in school but feeling disappointed when she makes mistakes. Tragically, the siblings endured violence and abuse by a kinship caregiver, remaining unseen for years.

Key Themes

This report highlights key systemic issues that were prevalent in Colby’s life and the lives of too many children. 

These include the impact of inadequate family supports and early prevention resources; inequities and a lack of oversight in family caregiving arrangements; significant weaknesses in interagency collaboration and communication; and the lack of data measurement and accountability for outcomes. The report also speaks to the risks of confusion over lines of accountability as Nations transition to having jurisdiction over their own child welfare systems. 

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Recommendations at a Glance

Focus on Child Well-Being

  • Develop a Child Well-Being Strategy and Action Plan to improve outcomes and address inequities.
  • Ground it in UNCRC, UNDRIP, and UNCRPD, recognizing colonization and racism.
  • Integrate Indigenous and Western knowledge, with shared outcomes and accountability.
  • Ensure long-term support, oversight, and child impact assessments.

Support Families

  • Bring all ministries together in an RCY-led Keeping Families Safely Together dialogue to strengthen family supports.
  • Ground in children’s rights, early learning, and responsive caregiving.
  • Address systemic inequities, integrate Indigenous and Western knowledge, and emphasize early intervention.
  • Use existing data and recognize the importance of place, culture, and coordinated action.

Address Violence

  • Address family violence and its impact on children and youth.
  • Revise the Gender-Based Violence Action Plan and expand culturally relevant services.
  • Increase cross-ministerial collaboration and healing funds for Indigenous communities.

Be Accountable

  • Create a child well-being data and accountability plan to track outcomes and address inequities.
  • Establish shared indicators, align with Indigenous data governance, and ensure ethical, inclusive data sharing.
  • Improve data quality, coordination, and reporting to guide decisions and reflect OCAP principles.

Support Jurisdiction

  • Define clear roles for ministries and public bodies in supporting Nations resuming jurisdiction over child well-being.
  • Include social and cultural determinants of health in all jurisdiction discussions.
  • Collaborate with Indigenous leadership and the federal government to address legislative gaps.
  • Support creation of Indigenous-led mechanisms to share laws, guide transitions, resolve issues, and advocate for children and families.
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